Reflections & Observations on Gossiping

Sometimes in life, you just have to take a step back from everyone, and do what makes you happy and stop stressing over what everyone else is thinking or saying about you.If people decide to act like that, that just shows their low maturity of growth as a person in general and sorry to say, but it's sad that people can't be more of an adult. However, just because some people act like that, doesn't mean I'm going to lower my maturity level to theirs. In order to have friends, you need to be a friend. REAL friends don't talk crap behind each others backs when they think the person is out of earshot, or when they aren't around for you to think it's okay to gossip about them like a bunch of busy bodied drama high school queens or drama llamas.Some of you are even too OLD to not know better, who SHOULD be setting an example to others because they MIGHT just look up to you even though they would never say so. I've sat back and been a quiet mouse for so long it's not even funny anymore how disgusting and wrong it really is; when some of you have bad pasts of your own to deal with before you even THINK about gossiping about someone elses.EVERYONE no matter who you are or where you come from, has a past they are probably not proud of. But you know what? Those mistakes from the past is what makes us a better and stronger person in character.The thing is is some of you who do it, complain SO much about it happening to you when the tables are turned. So you know what? If you don't want to be treated like shit by others then don't treat other people like shit. It's as blunt and simple as that.This isn't just  pin pointed towards people directly, unless you know for a fact you're the person doing it. So with that said, if the shoe fits, then either do something about it or quit bitching when people treat you the same as you treat them.If you're not the person who does it, don't worry about it.Obviously, it doesn't concern you.This is the only time I'll speak on the matter, so do what you guys feel you gotta do.